Life is about spreading love and not hate. Life is about being open and not closed. If you spend your life constantly blaming others, then you are broken. If you spend your time speaking poorly about people in/on (conversation, social networks), then you are miserable.. Life is about living and letting go, verses, holding on and allowing bitterness to consume you. Love is much more than a status update, it’s about being present, solving problems rather than creating them. Love is about trust and yielding, not about obsession and keeping score. Love is about growth and maturing, not relying solely on one person to make you happy. Love is about fusion while maintaining a sense of self. Love is about WE, you and I.
We need to have a sense of “self” but not be selfish. It’s important to know who we are. Though inevitable, insecurities are unattractive. Your insecurities are your responsibility, not anyone else’s. When you care for someone, you ask them if they need anything. You don’t try to prove how much you love them by bringing someone else down. That’s not love, that’s selfish petty behavior. Love is not to be confused with Lust if you don’t know the difference then you have no business in “Love.” You must first know what love is NOT, to truly understand what love is. Appreciation comes from experiences and not hypothetical theism.
Simenona Martinez is an avid writer and business woman. She is passionate about making the world a better place.