Why is it that we kick, cry, and scream for things that we do not really want? We chase things because we can’t have them or they do not want us, so that’s exciting… Everyone has their own reasons for taking part in the chase and everyone has their own excuses why they choose not to stop the chase…
Whether you’re chasing a man, love, death or a career, it doesn’t matter… you have to stop. You can’t live your life running around in circles because the root of a circle never changes; and life is about change.
Once you stop chasing and analyze what it was that you were chasing, you begin to realize that what you want, doesn’t want you. There is no “GAME” when it comes to love. Love isn’t a game. Most importantly, if it feels like a game…Then it isn’t love.
Do your best to not beat yourself up about it… “Oh I spent 12 years chasing (insert here).” It doesn’t matter because you’re human and it’s natural to want things, even the wrong things. Just move forward on a positive note, knowing that the only thing you should be chasing is your dreams.